Saturday, October 6, 2018

The Muddle of Moving




Early mornings have the misty look associated with autumn but day after day the temperature surges into the high 80's F with a too heavy dose of humidity.


In spite of prolonged heat some of the trees have a slight cast of autumn color.
The tulip poplar outside the kitchen window is one of the earliest trees to show fresh leaves in springtime and one of the first to begin losing them in slow drifts in late summer.

Autumn in New England is the standard by which I rate fall beauty;  here in south-central Kentucky we don't have the sugar maples which in more northern regions set the hills ablaze in September and early October with shades of red from scarlet to near burgundy.

Our hickories turn to tarnished gold, the oaks--always the last to shed their leaves--move slowly from green to a satiny brown.  
The seemingly interminable rains of September have kept fields and foliage green longer than usual.
We have had no chilly evenings or crisp mornings when the scent of neighborhood wood fires hang in the air.
The hummingbirds are still with us, drinking deeply at each visit to the feeders; cardinals flash through the hedgerows and I heard the raucous voice of a bluejay yesterday as I watered plants on the side porch.


The house is in chaotic uproar.  Our buyers had to be out of their former home two weeks before the closing scheduled for their purchase of our house. It didn't make sense for them to rent a storage unit and move their household plunder twice, so we cleared several rooms which are now stacked with their boxes and displaced furniture.
Much of our own furniture and packed boxes have been conveyed up the ridge to the storage trailer on our property. 
Jim has made a space for his chair and the TV;  the cats are indignant at the removal of sofas and beds which were to their liking.
I tend to wander about distracted from sorting and packing by the necessity of responding to some query, searching for some object which may--or may not--be still in the house.

Daughter Gina spent a day emptying the pantry, then tackled my clothes closet.
I have reached a point where I am rather easily persuaded to part with anything from seldom worn clothes to spare mugs, small decorative items.  Numerous bags of 'stuff' have been lugged off to the charity shop in town.
I obstinately cherish homely sweaters, favorite books, vintage oddments.


Coreopsis spilling over the retaining wall, sodden with repeated rain.


Pouring concrete for the basement of the new house--an undertaking delayed by rain. 


Jim, who did his own concrete work for years, is not pleased with the final product.
It would seem that the contractor [who wasn't present for the pour] was spreading his resources too thin--too few workers to properly handle the job.
Jim and our neighbor/renter pitched in to keep the work going.


The camper trailer which will serve as our home during construction of the new house is tucked at the end of the lane.


Before I began lugging in armloads of bedding, books, kitchen ware, etc, the camper appeared roomy and tidy.
I arranged books that I wanted accessible for the next several months in the right hand cupboard.
Several days later, going in with more plunder, I discovered moisture on one bookshelf--7 paperback books were waterlogged.
We discovered that a seam in the roofing had cracked and been poorly repaired, so that moisture from the A/C unit on the roof dribbled into the cupboard.
Jim quickly sealed the crack and all seems well--except I am cross regarding the damage to books!

At present the farmhouse no longer feels like home.  Curtains and pictures and the small peg racks I made have been taken down and packed.  Quilts on display and on the beds have been washed and carefully stored in large plastic bins.  Items for housekeeping in the camper have been crowded into what may be temporary places. 
We are still preparing breakfast and evening snacks in the farmhouse kitchen which is a welter of half-packed boxes, desolate piles of items which have yet to find their landing--things which don't fit well in boxes, don't belong in any reasonable category.
We head for the cafe on the corner most days to order a pizza or a hot sandwich with fries.

We hope to be out of the farmhouse by mid-week, leaving me a few days to thoroughly clean the kitchen, hoover up the last wisps of cat hair.
The cats!  
A priority is building a safe 'yard' so that the 'house cats' can go out to stretch and air themselves without getting confused and lost in a new setting.
The camper has everything one could desire--even a tiny clothes washer and dryer--but where do we situate the litter box?
I tackle the remaining tasks in determined bursts, flopping briefly into a chair when it seems I can feel vital energy draining from every muscle and sinew.
We will get through this!
The weather will moderate to something more in keeping with October;  I will sort the living space in the camper; the cats will settle in.
Building materials will be delivered and a new house will begin to rise.





12 comments:

  1. Shakes her head in disbelief but awe at what you are going through. A miserable time, yet a time to look forward as well to the new house. I wish you courage and strength Sharon. X

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    1. Thelma; The sorting, packing, moving, for me at least, is the really difficult part. I will manage once we are in the camper and the building is underway. Right now, all good wishes for courage and stamina are greatly appreciated!

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  2. I admire your fortitude, I don't think I could live through a build while living in a small trailer. Your so lucky that construction wise your husband knows what he's doing.

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    1. Janet; Our mild winters here will be a help in this process. When the camper seems too crowded I can walk around the acreage and air myself out! We couldn't do this if Jim wasn't an experienced builder.

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  3. Oh my goodness Sharon! I'm glad you have that camper trailer for your temporary home. Sorry you had the leak.

    Your new home is coming right along. I'm amazed! Praying that all will move along at a steady pace and go well for you & your feline family.

    Love, hugs & prayers ~ FlowerLady

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    1. Rainey; Prayers are so appreciated! I'm a bit concerned about moving the cats--they will be distracted and anxious for a few days. Jim has made a yard for them to keep them contained until they settle in. We will give them extra attention and reassurance.

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  4. We really are sisters from another mother! Back in 2010 we moved from a large four bedroom house at the other end of our town to what we referred to as the Fancy Fema trailer. We rented it from a company in NH whose business it is to rent these things to victims of flood, fire or in our case, home builders. It was tricky getting it up our narrow winding dirt road but arrive it did and was parked across the driveway from our newly poured foundation. It was advertised as a three bedroom mobile home!! The bedrooms on either end were large enough to hold a twin bed and a small dresser. The third bedroom would have held a crib, maybe. It was a good option for us as we had two large dogs and most rentals do not accept dogs. The other advantage was that I was just across the driveway and could answer any questions that the builder had, right in the moment. A humbling experience, that is for certain! We moved in in early June and moved out in mid April of 2011. We actually slept on the floor of our house starting in March because the field mice had set up housekeeping between the insulation and the trailer floor. The noise was unbearable!

    What an adventure for you! I look forward to seeing more photos and hearing all about your project.

    Mundi.......Vermont

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    1. Mundi; You had a long Vermont winter to spend in a tiny trailer with dogs! This will be our 3rd adventure of building a home while camping--this is the largest and most 'up-town' trailer that we've had as a temporary shelter.
      I am ready to move into an unfinished house as soon as there is a working bathroom and a place to set up a bed. It is great to be on site while the construction is under way--of course my discussions with the builder are discussions [sometimes slight arguments!] with my husband. I'm not good at visualizing the spaces until some of the interior walls are in place--then I get really excited!

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  5. I have to say, that camper van looks quite commodious compared with its relatives in this country!! Sorry about the leak - and the damaged books. I hope they weren't favourites but am guessing they may well have been.

    I hope that you can soon have a safe haven to reside in whilst the house grows, and that the cats don't complain TOO much.

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    1. Jennie; I had a reply nicely typed, hit something on the laptop keyboard and it went away. The laptop will be my only PC during the building process.
      The damaged books were paperbacks--the first 7 in the Brother Cadfael series which I'm thinking to re-read this winter. I expect i can replace through alibris. The cats and I may need a quiet day or two after the move to recharge.

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  6. Things going faster than I was expecting. I hope all the cats will stay and not get confused and run off. Looks like you have a good plan, though.

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    1. Phil; It seemed like slow going waiting for weather to have the basement poured. With that accomplished as soon as we have finished the move from the farmhouse I think we'll be seeing progress. Our carpenter son will be on the spot to help with the building. I hope the cats will decide this a lovely place to live!

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